Everybody has been there: standing in a shop or browsing online, trying to decide what to get for a friend’s Birthday Yvette’s Treasures. You’re in a maze of endless paths. We’ll take a detour from the usual path to discuss some way cooler gift ideas than just another pair of socks.

Remember that time you received a boring gift but had to fake a smile and say “Oh, I loved it!” All of us have been there. Avoid that trap. What about diving into a world of customized experiences? Imagine hitting the bullseye by taking a gourmet cooking class, a pottery lesson, or a zip-line adventure. It would be a great feeling to be the one who gave a gift.

Have you ever thought about the power of giving something handmade as a gift? You don’t have to be a Picasso. You can create treasures with glues and stitches. Imagine a scrapbook filled with memories, a scarf knitted in their favorite colors or a mix tape (actually, Spotify playlist because no one has tape recorders anymore). Songs that bring back memories.

Don’t throw out the traditional gifts yet. Classics such as books will never go out of style. Consider the reader’s taste. Science fiction, romance, mystery or self-help books? Grab them the latest bestsellers or hidden gems from their favorite genre. Add a quirky bookmark, or even an autograph of the author.

Have you heard of subscription boxes before? They are like a gift that never ends. Imagine their faces lighting up each month when they receive a box that is tailored to their taste. The possibilities are endless, from gourmet snacks to book clubs every month. Each delivery is like a mini-birthday, extending the enjoyment beyond just a single day.

Let’s have a quick tech discussion. You can’t go wrong with gadgets. The latest smartwatches and wireless earbuds are sure to be popular. The trick is to find out what they like best. Is she an avid fitness fan? Consider a Fitbit. Is he an aspiring photographer? Maybe a gadget that will enhance his photographic skills.

Do not forget the sentimental. Consider something sentimental. You can get them personalized photo frames, jewelry made to order, or a star named after them in the sky! It may sound corny but corniness can be just the thing.

Have a friend that is all about self care? Imagine a spa basket full of high-end lotions, relaxing candles and aromatic bath bombs. You’ll become the friend of the Year if you pair it with a heartfelt message.

Remember that inside joke, you’ve been telling for years? What about making it real? It could be a mug or a custom-made tee shirt with your favorite phrase.

My life has a funny story: I gave a small bonsai to a friend. It sounds odd, doesn’t it? Here’s the thing: They loved it. It was a living, quirky reminder of our friendship. Every time we speak, the little tree makes its way into our conversation. Don’t be afraid of the unusual. You may find that it is the perfect gift to keep you connected.

If you are still stuck, don’t hesitate to ask! It’s okay to ask. Asking someone directly what they want can save you a lot mental gymnastics. You might be surprised by what they say.

The best birthday gifts are those that show you care. The thought behind the gift is more important than the price. Next time you’re stuck for ideas on what to get someone as a birthday gift, remember these suggestions. Remember to take a deep breathe and that the search for the perfect gift is half of the fun.